My birthday is July the 4th and this year I reached the ripe old age of 65, shared with America’s quarter of a century since Independence.
My plan had always been to travel and celebrate in the States, combining a poker tournament with Andrew and family, and the World Cup, but a certain DT made the trip unpalatable.
So where to go? After a bit of toing and froing and looking at possible places to stay, Norfolk was the strongest contender. I booked a country cottage about 20 mins from Wells next the sea.
The Friday before Kevin and I left with Brodie and the car loaded up. The cottage in Hindringham was beautiful, quirky and had everything we needed. The host, Lois, was very helpful.
Craig, Georgina and Ralph joined us later and we enjoyed a lasagna for dinner before retiring looking forward to Saturday.








Saturday morning, we were treated to breakfast cooked by Craig, and the upstairs lounge was decorated with balloons and gifts and cards, and brownies made my Georgina. All a lovely surprise and I really appreciated it.




Next we made our way to Wells, it was Ralph’s first opportunity for a walk since his op on 17th June.
Joe was going to join us, so we arranged where to meet. As we bought our parking it became apparent that Joe was nowhere near us as he had travelled to Lowestoft. After another 1 1/2 hours he joined us, and I was met with flowers at the car park entrance which was lovely.
We enjoyed a picnic at the beach, and Ralph certainly did enjoy a good run around, and it is joyful to see him doing that again, he even went for a swim too.
As we prepared to leave the beach Nicole and River were on their way to where we were staying.
With everyone at the house, we had a drink then made our way to The White Horse, Brancaster Staithe, a celebrated gastropub.
We sat outside with the view of marshlands, and ordered our food. Brodie loved walking around and River followed him to make sure he was ok.
The food was really good and I enjoyed my surf and turf. A few photos were taken, then a drive back to the house. The boys played in the playroom and we all chatted, and it’s on these occasions I feel very keenly, missing Andrew, Amanda and Ramsay. I just remind myself that we are fortunate that we can travel and will do again soon to see them.
Sunday was a relaxed morning with a drive into Wells, a bit of crabbing, which Georgina really enjoyed, and a wander around.
Lunch at Stiffkey Red Lion was so nice, and Brodie wanted to explore.
Back to the cottage and Craig packed up the car, and they headed home. Kevin and I enjoyed the evening together.




Monday morning we packed up, and drove to Holt, had a walk around before settling for breakfast at Horatio’s. We both enjoyed a half Nelson breakfast, before walking back to the car to drive home.


A lovely few days away, spent with the best company, good food and in a beautiful place. Being 65 so far has been great and I’m sure for the remainder of this birthday year I’ll make more memories and will have more pinch me moments.
Spending time with family is precious and I thought I’d be getting my state pension this year, but I have to wait another two, so I suppose I’m still not technically a pensioner.
I was reminded of these words below and feel it is quite apt, rather than to keep striving for that elusive ideal, to be content with where you are and who you have in your life is a gift that keeps on giving.








































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































