Connect

When I started going out with Kevin, I was asked if I liked cricket, and up until that point I had no interest in it. Needless to say that changed and I recently visited Lord’s for afternoon tea and a tour of the museum. I would highly recommend it as it is superb. The photo below is the trophy for the Ashes, which ‘replaced’ the little vase, as it is is too fragile to travel. The reason for choosing this is that with our eldest living in Australia this trophy is a connection to the two continents we live in. #developingyoureye #Australia #Lord’s #Ashes#afternoontea #connect #

Bliss…..

What is bliss to me? It is time spent with family and friends, home or further afield. Memories made and shared are always there to recount when, perhaps, life is less kind, or you are just having a bad day. Bliss should wrap around you and continue to bring hope that good things happen! #develpoingyoureye #flowers #bliss #happiness

some of my wonderful family!
A floral cacophany from a family wedding, pure, simple and stunning!

Water…….

Water is an extraordinary element. It can provide tranquility and relax you when stressed. The gentle tinkle of a garden water feature, or the strains of waves lapping the shore – magical. The flip side is, in certain conditions, any body of water can be so brutal, causing loss of life, livelihood or home.

We must respect it, never take for granted it’s power and also that it sustains us through life.

#developingyoureye

Home …..

They say home is where the heart is and if so my family and friends are my home! 

Having moved from Scotland in the late sixties I have lived in eight houses over 50+ years, with 26 of those in our current house.

A house is a building, a home is a warm feeling that surrounds you, where you feel safe, secure and loved. 

We personalise our homes and have pictures of family and friends around us. We fill them with mementos of travels, children and gifts received on marriage or birthdays.

We take those with us as we move and as families extend so do the memories.

#developingyoureye

So long, farewell, Auf Wiedersehen, adieu……..

Today sees the end of the academic year, with still so much to do over the coming weeks in preparation for another. 

My desk was covered in piles of work,  with staff to interview, July payroll to be checked, negotiating leases and a myriad of other things to do.


We had twelve staff either retiring, leaving for pastures new or to enjoy motherhood, and with that the obligatory presentations, speeches and tears.

So, as I reflect on the last year, it made me think about what makes people feel valued?


In my humble opinion, and it is purely that, it is:

Good communication, listening, and having appreciation shown. 

Quite often it is the simple things that can provide the biggest fillip; a thankyou for a job well done, to feel part of something, a smile and showing an interest.

So much can be achieved through common endeavour, seeing the bigger picture and the benefits that change and acceptance can bring.

I have a full diary over the next six weeks, both with work and socially I will enjoy time with family and friends, good food and wine. I hope the sun shines, and traffic is kind with journeys to be made.

I hope to find peace and joy to refresh me and to be ready to face the challenges that I will have to face.

so adieu, adieu, to yieu, and yieu, and yieu!

💕💕💕💕☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️

Ballots, balls and dreams…..a tale of Wimbledon 2016

In November last year I entered the ballot for Wimbledon tickets for the second year and to be honest, forgot all about it, until February when a letter arrived to say I had been allocated two tickets for Centre Court on the 10th July. A quick calculation, the realisation hit that they were tickets on Men’s Final Day! 


Having never been before, I was excited beyond belief, parted with English pounds and eagerly awaited the tickets and to find out where we would be sitting.

These arrived in May and checking where we were resulted in great woops of delight.

I have always wanted to go and with a July birthday, felt that it would be a great treat, and  a treat it was seated by the baseline , seven rows from the front. As a Scot, I also wanted to see Andy Murray win his second Wimbledon, and as the previous days had progressed it seemed that all was on course for that to happen. But Milos has a huge serve and had beaten Roger Federer to secure his final place, so it wasn’t a certainty.

We booked parking at car park 10, a cost of £25 for all day. On arrival we parked up and the heavens opened. The rain lessened and we made our way to AELTC. Walking through, with polite stewards awaiting, we passed through the bag check and we had a wander.

A priority was to find something to eat, so sandwiches, crisps and strawberries and cream were chosen. A Pimms and a Stella were our drinks of choice.

A quick photo in front of centre court and we watched the wheelchair women’s doubles warm up.


Ok, my heart pounding, we made our way to gangway 111 and found our seats. It struck me how much smaller it was, seems so much bigger on TV. Light rain began to fall and we sheltered under an umbrella, whilst a brass band blasted out some tunes.


The rain stopped, we saw Boris Becker, Pat Cash, McEnroe, Tim Henman and Leyton Hewitt. Sue Barker came out and interviews began. That’s when my phone started with – where are you, what are you wearing? Then photos sent from screen shots. I had the privilege to sit next to Ruth and her son Richard, both equally excited as we were to be there, their joy unconfined.

Then Andy Murray and Milos Raonic came out and so did the sun. The power, even in the warm up, is a sight and sound to behold and the seats began to fill, as did the Royal Box. Suddenly it felt an intimate venue and that the Centre Court was a warm hug around us.


And so it began……

The power, the deft strokes across the net, the precision at speed, my heart pounding,  feeling nervous for Andy, and his loved ones, coupled with messages, photos and shared conversations with those around us just heightened the whole experience. At one point Milos  served the second fastest serve at Wimbledon 147 mph, which Andy returned! One set up and a trip to the loo was needed. 



I returned to my seat and a few unforced errors, more flashing strokes, backhands, forehands, volleys and slices were fast and furious. Second set went to a tie break, and Andy secured that wonderfully. At one point you sensed that Milos, as he trudged back to serve again, was thinking, ‘What do I have to do?’


Third set and there was no let up. He didn’t lose a service game and I dared to dream that I would see him hold the trophy aloft.

Another tie break and part of me wanted Milos to win so that we could have another set, but Andy took the lead in the tie break and just before 5pm he’d won.


Emotions were expressed, the crowd erupted, I shed a few tears as if my own son had won. The relief felt was palpable, and the well oiled machine began preparations for the presentation of the trophies.



Post match interviews were held, Milos magnanimous in defeat, and Andy Murray his irascible self, but underneath there is a sensitivity that is rarely seen. His voice pointedly broke when he said he loved his family!

He deserved to win and I was so proud to have been there, with Kevin, and felt that so many people that I knew were with us from the messages sent during the match.

But we weren’t finished yet, another Brit, Heather Watson was in the mixed doubles final with Henri Kontinen, and we stayed to cheer them on! 

Gosh, doubles are played at a much faster pace, reactions quicker and as the sun faded we were treated to a delightful show. In what seemed a short amount of time, we had another Wimbledon Champion! This time the presentation to be made in the Royal Box.

After an awesome day we walked back to our car, tired, emotional but so glad that we had been there. There are so many superlatives that I could use, but exceptional, immense and inspiring are a few.

I apologise for it being a bit of a phlog, and I will be buying myself a camera to take better photos to share!

A weekend of cricket, rugby and cricket……

Last weekend my dear friend and I travelled to Birmingham for  an England v Sri Lanka one day international. We arrived in good time, and picked up a reasonably healthy lunch time chicken wrap. 
You can see by the photo that we were optimistic about the weather! 

We were high up, and as a vertigo sufferer, there were a few scary moments. Sandwiched between two men who were, to small talk, akin to me having a singing career! 


The match was a spectacle, especially the bananas, with Alex Hales and Jason Roy each scoring a century to win. We were lucky with the weather, although no cricket tan topping up! A journey to Fort Dunlop travelodge was fairly easy, although sleeping arrangements interesting. Inadvertently having booked a family room there was a spacious double and a pull out single…….

Bright and early we made our way to Worcester, passing the Lea & Perrins building. We found an O’Neills and seats were pulled up and a small breakfast consumed. Purpose –  to watch England v Australia in Sydney. 

A thrilling match ensued and England won the series 3-0. Avoiding heavy showers we resumed our journey to Bristol.

We had arranged to meet my niece and her boyfriend and a tardy taxi arrived to drop us at El Puerto, a tapas restaurant. The food was sooo tasty, washed down with Pimms and white wine.

Next stop was a bar for a cocktail, beer and Diet Coke.


A good night’s sleep was enjoyed , with both having a double each! Bliss.

Up early again, Andy had offered a lift to Gloucster’s ground for another ODI. Optimistic that our luck would hold with the weather, sundresses were order of the day. It was regretted later, but can’t blame the girls for trying.



The match was abandoned after we had sat through drizzle and showers to see the Sri Lankan innings. The rain followed us all the way home! 

Memories made by us both, laughter and family time enjoyed. 

Australia has a new citizen


Earlier today and thousands of miles away Australia gained a new citizen in Andrew Morley. 

I can’t believe that it is almost 6 years since Andrew got engaged, graduated from Brunel and travelled to Australia with Lis. 

How that time has flown and as we approach his birthday I ponder on how those 28 years have passed.

The baby with a mop of black hair has grown and flown! Never in my wildest dreams would I have thought that our first born would make his life so far away. 

But the positives are two trips to Australia, with a third in the planning stage. I fondly remember the smiling little boy  ‘with a big brain’. 


On occasion sensitive, quite often serious, as he hurtled through the teenage years. 

Andrew has blossomed in Australia, the laid back life suits him well.


He is carving out a career, Lis and Andrew have recently moved into a new home, plans made and a bright future awaits in ‘Australia Fair’

New beginnings and goodbyes…..

Me,Sara and Jenny at Harrods

Today we said goodbye to Jenny (far right) after four years at SJP. 

I first met Jenny when she worked at another school and was thrilled when she applied for the job in 2012. 

Duly appointed, she brought so much to the school and students. A real techie and always there with a smile; Sara and I will miss her. 

She has a brilliant opportunity working for Capita and she will be a real asset to them and it is always great to see people develop and flourish! 

It got me thinking about the staff that I have worked with over the 11 years.

Kim and Cyn were there when I joined. Cyn retired in 2011 after a long career at the school, and Kim left to work for ECC where I had worked previously. We were all in one office together and we always had a giggle whilst working.

Kim has flourished and maximised opportunities that have come her way, and today at a meeting, it made my heart sing, that she was lauded as a brilliant help when a school went through the academy conversion process.

Bev joined the school in 2008 and increased her role and responsibilities and is now flying high at an academy in Stanford-Le-Hope. I miss her little quips, especially ‘I think it’s because I nearly died as a baby’!


 I must admit to having a penchant for employing people that display a certain joie de vivre, great fashion style and happy to put up with my, on occasion, ribald comments.
It has been a pleasure to share a small part of their lives and also keep in touch via social media as well as face to face.

We are all richer for knowing each other and I’m sure that there is someone out there ready to start their new beginning with us and all that will entail! 

A maritime weekend


First stop on Saturday was the ocean terminal, Southampton, to board the P &O Azura. I am reluctant to cruise, so an opportunity to see what is offered, get a feel of who cruises, seemed a perfect way to have a look without parting with too much cash. 


Lots of bars and restaurants and a plethora of places to do as much or as little as you want. I’m probably considering to give it a go, but, I have certain requirements for accommodation etc and not sure Kevin’s pockets are as deep as my expectations high. But I see that we could fit in the Monaco GP so watch this space!

After a great lunch, we headed for Portsmouth
We popped in to see a cousin then made our way to G! Boutique Hotel. Our room was Glamorous , very apt! 


We decided on Tapas for a bite to eat, then exhausted, I had a bath and bed. 

A tasty breakfast started the day, followed by a FaceTime call to Australia. We checked out and made our way to the historic boatyard in Portsmouth for the centenary of the battle of Jutland exhibition. 


The loss of life, as now, is so sad, and this was a fitting tribute to those who gave their lives. So sad to see about Jack Cornwell, only sixteen, to be among them. We are so fortunate to see glimpses of times gone by and to feel proud of our services.

A stroll to see the Victory , I’d like to say resplendent, but not quite! 

It as been a lovely few days, and just what I needed, after a week to forget!

Let’s see what the next week brings!

A Fond Farewell…

After the Bank Holiday we returned to school and ensured that all plans were in place for the funeral at OLI for Tony Ward and for the ‘wake’ to be held at the school after.

The sun was shining on Wednesday and the Mass, readings and eulogies were a fitting send off for him, and hopefully give comfort to his family in the future.

The stories recanted of a young Tony were funny and endearing and there was laughter as well as tears, and we were acutely aware of saying goodbye to someone very special.

As sad as it has been, Tony did not linger, he didn’t have to be cared for by loved ones, suffer indignity and a slow decline, and for that we are thankful.

Now we have to adjust to our ‘new normal’ and continue with his lifetime’s work!

May Day, May Day!….

Traditionally May Day is a distress call, used generally for sea faring emergencies, but our day started with a vehicular kind. 

Jay and Nina had only just left for work when the call was made. Her car was completely dead, and could I get there quickly to take them to work? I wasn’t dressed and didn’t have my lenses in. 

I got ready so quickly I didn’t take my phone or tell Kevin what was going on.

Duly dropped off at work, I returned home to the phone ringing again. This time it was Andrew calling from their new abode. Andrew and Lis told us all about the last few days and it was lovely to hear their joy and enthusiasm. Hopefully piccies will follow soon for me to share. 

Bella, their cat, seems very settled


After that call Kevin and I made our way to where the car was…. Started first time! We drove to their workplace and then drove home. Crisis managed and our list of jobs could be begin. 

We sorted through the designs for the garden, cleaned and tidied the house, mowed the lawn. Phew as we are off tomorrow we can do the rest then! 

Did take a few pics in the garden as it was such a beautiful day! 

The other side of the coin…

Heard on Friday that a teacher at school and his wife were safely delivered of a daughter.

That’s the news I’ve been hoping for.

New life, and the hope and optimism it brings with it. Dreams and plans for the family and future open up. But how quickly it goes. Terrible twos, teenage dirtbags, all become a distant memory! 
I can’t believe that my youngest is 22, yesterday!

We have a gamut of memories shared, so much laughter and an extended family rich in variety providing solace and comfort when needed but also those moments of pure joy!I wish the new family and their long awaited bundle of joy health and happiness. Enjoy, laugh, and cry as childhood is just gone in a flash!